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How to restrain from dating as a teen in today’s world?

21st March 2013

How to restrain from dating as a teen in today’s world?

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Question by Jesus+Broadway+Music=Love: How to restrain from dating as a teen in today’s world?
I’m in high school and it’s very hard not to be attracted to guys. But I don’t want to date. For several reasons. My past is one reason, but also I want to wait for the one God has for me. I want a courtship, but what do I tell people? I do get asked out sometimes and I never know what to say. It’s hard to keep from dating guys. Very hard. Advice?

Best answer:

Answer by summerr
just dont think about them

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  1. 1 On March 21st, 2013, MAndy said:

    Just say you dont want to ruin the friendship between the both of you 😀

  2. 2 On March 21st, 2013, emma said:

    iam in high school and i know how you feel. i just simply tell the guy that iam sorry and id like to be friends but ive got a lot and iam busy and just trying to set my priorites straight at the moment. if you like them but its not the right time, just say id like to some other time! :)

  3. 3 On March 21st, 2013, Jen said:

    im in the same situation, but rly, what i do is just tell the guy hes not my type and that i just wanna stay friends with him. When my friends ask me why I always reject, I just tell them that the guy wasnt my type. I also pray about it, for God to straighten me and help me wait for the one He planned for me. But i do think that being attracted to guys isnt going to go away because thats just how God made us, being attracted to the opposite sex. just keep in mind…..ur not the only one 😉

  4. 4 On March 21st, 2013, juun_yukiko said:

    You can’t force yourself to not be attracted to guys, so don’t even try. What does help from not wanting to be in a relationship is honestly to keep busy. I didn’t date in high school (I’m in college now) because I was just too busy with school, sports, and extracurricular activities to even think about having a relationship. Also, not finding a guy I was truly attracted to helped a lot.

    If you don’t want to date the guy asking you out, just say “I’m not interested in being in a relationship right now.” or “I’m too busy.” and leave it at that.

  5. 5 On March 21st, 2013, Madison said:

    its hard for me… but I also want 2 wait 2 c wat God has planed 4 me… but… as long as u keep ur relationship w? God close… u could date… cause da way i c it… u will never find out ur husband if u dont start dating sometime

  6. 6 On March 21st, 2013, RMR said:

    You can say:
    I don’t date.
    I prefer courtship.
    Talk to my father.

    I know it’s hard but realize it doesn’t matter what other people think. The Bible tells us to rejoice when others make fun of us or we’re going through hard times b/c of Him b/c He will reward us. Think of your future husband and how happy he will be to know you saved yourself for him, even if you have made mistakes in the past.

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