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Teen Help!!??

30th September 2012

Teen Help!!??

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Question by la-di-da: Teen Help!!??
OKay couple things im in 7th grade and i am thinking about girl boy partys. Who has them and whats it like?? Im shy around boys and so i dont wanna throw a party but i want to be popular. What should i do??

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Answer by Trey
Hey 7th grade I’ve been there (last year) Well to be popular just do this Be Yourself I like that in a girl it will work out much better for you

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  1. 1 On September 30th, 2012, jloxo ( party time ) said:

    talk to everyone at the party ! dance with new people, talk and laugh ! let people get to know you. dont be shy !!! :) oh and have fun <3

  2. 2 On September 30th, 2012, lindz said:

    stop whining.
    flirt with everyone.
    have fun.
    HAVE A PARTY!!
    INVITE EVERYONE

  3. 3 On September 30th, 2012, Kiiz ♥ said:

    dont du it!
    ull regret it
    being popular is hard work!

  4. 4 On September 30th, 2012, BRITTNEY said:

    uhmm being popular isnt what you think it is..it just causes more drama..i think the party is an awesome idea…being shy around guys is totally normal but not making a effort to over come that fear is another……

  5. 5 On September 30th, 2012, Lilly K said:

    dont worry about being popular have guys you like over
    and i went to one of the girl boy partys its fun expecaily when your friends with the guys and you can act like your self :]
    but its fun
    dont stress over anything :]

  6. 6 On September 30th, 2012, foxy_lil_mimi said:

    Um im a high school parties r like every friday here during the school year have fun music, just let loose, 2 get rid of shyness, invite people who can bring the party, and people who r fun to be around n that’s a party in itself, dont focus so much on being popular as much as focusing on getting to know the people at the party a simple u look nice where’d u get that shirt can start a whole conversation.

  7. 7 On September 30th, 2012, winniethepooh said:

    lol !! basically theres nothing wrong about boy girl parties, the only thing u gotta worry about is LAMENESS . if yer party will turnout boring .

    but i suggest, u invite a f a m i l i a r pack of guys and a mixture of girls to yer party .

    but be sure to invite a group of close girl pals that way itll be more fun .

  8. 8 On September 30th, 2012, carriegrill said:

    Get to know the guys!! once you talk to them once and really get to know them you will be okay so then you can have the boy girl parties and you will be popular!! hope i helped 😀

  9. 9 On September 30th, 2012, hey hey its mee said:

    m in 6th grade and i just had my first like boy girl party except when i was little

    but anyway if you just invite ur guy friends then its just like having a all girl party but gots to be a bit careful with the games you play sooo its not awkward for the guys
    and only invite guys that ur like friends with it makes it easier to invite them so its not weird and if the only reason your having this party to get popular it might not help cuz people might not want to go to ur party if they barely know you

  10. 10 On September 30th, 2012, ChellieBelle said:

    Don’t be popular. And don’t touch people. You’ll get chlamydia. And die.

  11. 11 On September 30th, 2012, la. said:

    It isn’t about being popular, it is about being yourself.. Don’t be nervous around guys.. They are human just like you. =]

  12. 12 On September 30th, 2012, Rachel Jean said:

    I just graduated from high school.
    Boy/girl parties are so much fun, so have them! Just know that having parties won’t necessarily make you popular, and you shouldn’t TRY to be popular. Just be charming and friendly, and popularity will come with that.
    Since you’re shy, get to know some new people the first few weeks of school, THEN have a party and invite the people you met. Chances are since they’re new with you too, they’ll be shy but flattered for being invited to a party that you’re having.
    Good ideas for parties include movies, games — but no spin the bottle or seven minutes in heaven; those are so juvenile–, and music.
    Also be sure to have finger food that’s easy to eat.
    Have fun in school!

  13. 13 On September 30th, 2012, ashhippo said:

    Don’t do anything you’re uncomfortable doing. Who cares what a few people think about you? It’s more important that you have a good time. Most of my friends are guys so all the parties I’ve ever had guys have been there. Besides, you can invite guys and not really talk to them, right? I don’t know what your intentions are, but in 7th grade you shouldn’t be inviting guys over unless your parents agree and if you want them over. Again, popularity won’t get you anything in the long run.

  14. 14 On September 30th, 2012, M S said:

    don’t worry. guys are scared too. you’re all at the age of curiosity. go ahead and have a coed party! get guys that will have fun and are social. and invite your friends that are social. have music and food and games. breathe. you’ll be fine! and maybe even get a guy to dance with!
    and popularity isn’t important. guys should like you for you. not popularity

    Just have fun!

  15. 15 On September 30th, 2012, Bella. said:

    ay nina….it doesnt matter if youre popular or not!!! its just imporant to have fun with ur friends ..and i mean safe fun bc now in days honey u dont wanna know what it takes to e supposably popular….doing drugs having sex and then…hiv…is that what u want? …ya i dont think so either…well just have fun and if u really want to be a popular girl girl…good luck with that bc (popular) ppl get their buts wooped nasty by other ppl…AND I MEAN NASTY TOO.. well good luck sweetcakes and like i said ..just learn how to have fun….u dont have to be poplular…TAKE IT FORM ME ive sord of been popular ..but then i regret it it bc ppl then can talk mess bout u EVEN MORE!! kay?…well laterz honee..
    *Bella =)

  16. 16 On September 30th, 2012, singergalhalpeper102030405060708 said:

    this year i went from kinda geeky to the girl that’s best friends with the most popular guys and girls!!!

    well i kinda went one person at a time… i talked to one girl once i could see she liked me i wasn’t so goofy around her once she talked to me a lot and told me things then i knew we were friends so i was me!!

    then i turned to a different person!!!

    then i kinda went to the guys slowly!!!

    and they were really nice to me!! now it’s just really easy and i’m perfect around boys!!!

    hope this helps!!

    helen

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