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15th May 2012

How to stay strong and be single as a teen??? advice plzz?

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Im 15 and I havent had a boyfriend for two years. I am usually very sarcastic and extremely independent. I do things for myself 24/7. But all my friends haev boyfriends and they are in “love” (puppy love). I feel like i am becoming an outcaster not having a bf. I don’t necessarly want one but I just don’t know how to stay strong/happy…sorry if its confusing but thanks for you help!

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Answer by Courtney
get a bf. if u cant beat em join em. and there is nothing wrong w/ puppy love. it builds u up 4 when the real thing comes along. youll b fine.

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1 On May 15th, 2012, sten213 said:
I disagree with the first answerer. Please don’t feel bad at all for not having one. I understand the feeling because that was me in high school too. Everyone around me always did, but never me. You need to make sure that the person you end up with is right for you in A LOT of ways. I feel like since some of us have to wait through our teen years, and it doesn’t just happen for us, we have a lot more time to really figure out exactly what it is that we want in a guy. I’m 18, and haven’t ” dated” since I was 15, nothing at all happened, I still haven’t kissed anyone, yes, sometimes it kills me, but I’m making it, and the longer you go without one, the STRONGER you’ll be. You’ll end up feeling a peace about it. Not having one will really prepare you for someone you’re meant to be with, even though I know it’s terribly hard. The only thing that gets me through all the girls constantly talking about their boyfriends is thinking ” how long is it gonna last with them? who is their boyfriend? is it really that great of a thing?” and then I think to myself about a guy, somewhere in the world, who is hoping for me, but he just doesn’t know yet. You have to be hopeful and know that whatever they have is probably not that great, it’s just the status of it that you see. You’ll find someone and it’s going to be what you’ve always wanted, and you’ll skip over the break ups and pain that you’re friends will eventually go through. You’re gonna be the strong one who ends up with the best thing. Good luck

posted on May 15th, 2012 at 1:51 am