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1. 1 On April 1st, 2012, Hokie_Pokey said:

   Use condoms. The pull out method doesn’t work.

   I see so many kids on here saying “….but he pulled out”.

   posted on April 1st, 2012 at 7:33 am

2. 2 On April 1st, 2012, KeepSmiling said:

   no birth control is 100% effective so unless you are ready for the possibility of a child i would not have sex. if you are going to have sex always use birth control no excuses.
   the pull out method is ineffective and should not be classed as birth control very few people can do it correctly.
   STD’S are everywhere you never know who has then .never have sex without a condom. Goggle pictures of sexually transmitted diseases if you need any more convincing

   posted on April 1st, 2012 at 7:57 am

3. 3 On April 1st, 2012, ♥€he¬sea said:

   some advice???

   no contraceptive is 100%

   posted on April 1st, 2012 at 8:34 am

4. 4 On April 1st, 2012, Dana said:

   USE PROTECTION! It may seem super uncool to not use a condom or use birth control, but a baby at a young age can ruin all of your plans…forever.
   I think a lot of young people assume a baby is the worse thing that can happen. But 1 in 5 of every adult has herpies! That’s so high! And what about genital warts? These things are passed even if you use a condom!

   Just for a few minutes of a “good time”, you have all these life-long reprocussions. Think twice before you do anything and at least make sure you know the person’s sexual history (they still could be lying to you anyway). As I look back, the cool people are those that didn’t have a kid and don’t have STD’s.

   It’s honestly best to wait until you’re TRUELY in love and you’ve known the person for a while.

   posted on April 1st, 2012 at 8:43 am

5. 5 On April 1st, 2012, Starlight 1 said:

   How about ‘DON’T DO THIS, unless you want to get pregnant or get a disease which will ruin your health, and may cost you your life?”- That’s the advice I’d give.

   posted on April 1st, 2012 at 9:09 am

6. 6 On April 1st, 2012, Erin L said:

   if they wanna do it there gonna do it either way. just use condoms.

   posted on April 1st, 2012 at 9:13 am

7. 7 On April 1st, 2012, Confused ♥ said:

   -use protectiong, take birth control…but the best advice is that you shouldn’t have sex. what if you get an std, get pregnant and its worth waiting for someone you love.

   posted on April 1st, 2012 at 9:39 am

8. 8 On April 1st, 2012, Glenna said:

   Use protection every single time. Even if your only giving/receiving oral sex or anal sex, you can still contract STD’s. Pregnancy is not the only thing to worry about when having sex. BE SAFE and BE SMART!

   If you are a sexually active female, you should be on birth control (the pill, the patch, the shot….) AND you should always have condoms. Don’t leave it up to the guy to have protection. That way they can’t use the excuse “I forgot to get condoms”. If he doesn’t use a condom, he gets no sex. End of discussion.

   Ladies, once you become sexually active, no matter what your age, you need to start getting yearly gynecology examinations. Once you start having sex, you start putting yourself at risk for many different diseases including ovarian cancer. Only a doctor can check for these types of diseases. So get checked out yearly!

   And lastly, sex is more than just a “feel good moment”. Once you have sex, you are eternally connected to that person. You have a piece of each other that can never be given/taken back. Sex is meant to be saved for marriage. Unfortunately, that just doesn’t happen as much as it should. So if you do decide to have sex before marriage, just remember that you are giving away a piece of yourself that you’ll never be able to give to your future husband/wife. You’ll only be able to give him/her a portion of the intimate you. The more people you have sex with, the less you’ll be able to give to your spouse.

   *I think telling teenagers to “save sex for marriage” and not education them about safe sex is part of the problem. Teaching “abstinence only” is not teaching them much at all. If we don’t tell them how to have sex safely, then how are they going to know? I do strongly believe that sex should be saved for marriage, but the percentage of people who actually do wait is disturbingly low. Teach abstinence AND safe sex!

   posted on April 1st, 2012 at 9:53 am

9. 9 On April 1st, 2012, Nikki said:

   I have loads of advice. If you are not ready for the possiblity of having a child then don’t have sex. There are tons of types of protection out there right now. Condoms, vaginel contraceptive film, diapgram, the pill, the shot, mirena, and norplant just to name a few. Here is a great website http://www.optionline.org/map.html?gclid=CPCd1s_aipQCFQvOIgod3HOCVw

   posted on April 1st, 2012 at 10:43 am

10. 10 On April 1st, 2012, simply_Amazing_16 said:

    first of all unless they are a mature teen as in 18 or 19 years of age , i do not suggest them having sex . before they consider having 10 minutes of pleasure they should consider the consequences. Through having sex , many things happen that can change your life and impact you deeply , for example having a child may be a blessing for those who are old enough to take care and financially support it but for those who are only children themselves its nothing but heartache , yes you would love you baby but you still need to grow up yourself. Becoming pregnant seems to be the only worry among teens or even adults when it comes to having sex. what about the many diseases that go along with it . not only can it affect you , but it may effect your future relationships . some diseases go on through life with you and when you finally find the right man or women that you want to spend your life with , you find out that they have a STD , or they find out you have one and then you cannot have children with them, and it just gets worse. so my advice to teens wanting to have sex , is if you are going to do it , wear protection , get on the pill , and don’t take nothing for granted , always pratice safe sex. it only takes one sperm to change your life, so think of the consequences

    posted on April 1st, 2012 at 11:14 am

11. 11 On April 1st, 2012, Softball=Life™ said:

    Don’t do it.

    posted on April 1st, 2012 at 12:07 pm

12. 12 On April 1st, 2012, Mx BABY:) said:

    Alright well I am 15 and this is what I’d tell other teens..
    – Before you do it be aware that sex sometimes does complicate things.
    – Girls, sometimes guys are just with you because they think that you will have sex with them.
    – Girls, Go on birth control before you start having sex.
    – Both make sure you have condoms on you.
    – USE condoms!
    – Just because your on birthcontrol it doesn’t mean you can stop using condoms there are alot of std’s out there and no contraceptive is 100%.
    – Don’t do it because you are being pressured into it.
    – Do it when you feel that you are ready and are in a commited relationship.
    – Whenever you do have sex there is ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant.
    …..
    yeah I could go on with more thiiiings so.

    posted on April 1st, 2012 at 12:47 pm

13. 13 On April 1st, 2012, Mann,i forgot my name hmmm... said:

    safe sex
    you really shouldnt be having sex though

    posted on April 1st, 2012 at 12:51 pm

14. 14 On April 1st, 2012, Ka(i)ri said:

    be sure you’re ready. if there’s any doubt, DON’T DO IT. I’m a high school virgin, but many of my friends have already had sex and i worry for their sake.

    posted on April 1st, 2012 at 12:52 pm

15. 15 On April 1st, 2012, whodey1992 said:

    condoms. if u dont do that, then i suggets not having sex. either way, condom or not, you could still get someone pregnant

    posted on April 1st, 2012 at 1:32 pm

16. 16 On April 1st, 2012, Doc said:

    For sure Glenna had the best answer.

    or…you could tell ’em to just have buttsecks! The only problem is the very real possibility of becoming pregnant and giving birth to a lawyer.

    posted on April 1st, 2012 at 2:16 pm

17. 17 On April 1st, 2012, Mr.B= Anti-Jonas+ Anti-Red Sox said:

    ask a friend dude, cuz most of these Yahoo nerds, would tell you WAIT or DONT DO IT. just use a condom.

    posted on April 1st, 2012 at 3:02 pm

18. 18 On April 1st, 2012, Delilah288 said:

    use protection. life in a trailer with 5 babies and a cigarette is not the american dream.

    posted on April 1st, 2012 at 3:41 pm

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