Nagging: "To be a persistent source of annoyance or distraction. To irritate by constant scolding or urging." That is the definition from Merriam-Webster.
This is what an individual feels when they think they are being "nagged". Who wants to deal with the constant annoyance and scolding? Not any grown chatting I know.
So what is the root of nagging? Depending on where you look
http://www.teammlbangelsshop.com/ , you may find different answers, but from what I've learned, nagging is a result of a lack of communication between two partners.
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