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Ok i am 20 he is 26. We have been going out around 2 months now. He was in the shower this morning and i was just messing around on his laptop. Anyways i ended up on his chat logs. It was from a girl in Australia and we are in England. He said to her i love you..and she said she cant wait to see him when she comes on even though she does not know when shes coming...

I asked him what that was about and he said they just leave each other comments randomly and that shes only someone off the internet..but he does not want to break her heart by saying he is with someone else.

I am fuming here! What should i say to him or do?

10 points!

Thanks X

That's crazy! My boyfriend did that to me too, he was telling some other girl that he wanted to have sex with her and do all this stuff to her even though we were happily together! I confronted him about it, ended up crying and we took a few days to collect our thoughts then talk about it. Needless to say he wanted to be with me and stopped talking to that other girl completely. For you, just tell him how it makes you feel and also that you wouldn't be doing that to other guys, so it doesn't make sense that he would do that other girls. I hope everything works out! Oh and I know it's going to be hard, but try not to get all suspicious of him, even though he broke your trust!

Good Luck!

He doesn't deserve you so you should break up with him. If a guy really cared about a new relationship with a girl then he would break off his former ties or just leave them as friends. I don't understand why he would fear telling her the news because it isn't like she can do anything to him when she is on the other side of the world and it is more hurtful to lead a woman on. A man who didn't want to hurt a woman a lot would realize that he needed to be honest with her. If he weren't going to tell her about you he should at least not respond with the I Love You part. He still has feelings for her I am sad to say. Go find a man who has his heart 100% committed to you.