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Any teens or moms out there that can help me?

18th April 2010

Any teens or moms out there that can help me?

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my mom wont let me wear short shorts because she does sahaja yoga and she believes in covering yourself up all the time and she doesnt let me wear sleeveless shirts or dresses or bikinis unless they have rashguards over them. i really want to be able to wear short shorts because i live in florida and its really hot can one of you please help me. i dont know what to do i go to school and feel so out of fashion wearing jeans in the hot spring weather and i like how the shorts look. and no i dont want to look like a slut i just like how the shorts look. my mom is being so unfair no its not just growing pains. i hate it so much. she is so strict. and im afraid that one day she is going to be so strict and ill get tired of it and ill just run away. i always want to run away everyday. help me please. i am 14 years old and i am so restricted and everytime i try something on in a store that my mom doesnt like she has this face of digust and disapproval that i hate looking at i just start tearing and tell her we are leaving the store and that i dont care. but i care so much i dont want to be a child she is ashamed of i just want to wear what i like. she says she is helping me with my future and morals and stuff but i can learn from my mistakes. a lot of my friends moms dont let them do things and then end up becoming the kind of person who does EVERYTHING but in secret. their relationship with their moms is screaming at each other all day and hating each other. i dont want that. i just want to be able to wear short shorts and my mom makes it such a big deal. someone please help me. especially the teens and moms.

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  1. 1 On April 18th, 2010, Holly said:

    Maybe you can tell your mom about not wanting to have an unhealthy relationship.Then tell her about how you feel. then you can do the stuff. Though you should seriously just start with shorts and once your mom gets comfortable with you wearing that then you can move on to other stuff :

  2. 2 On April 18th, 2010, l h h said:

    Its YOUR body NOT hers…. Its YOUR life.. NOT hers.. ITs your decision NOT hers.. GET IT?? Your mum may made you BUT that doesnt mean that she has the right to control what you wear or do.. YOU MUST FIGHT BACK not with violence of course . AND DONT BACK DOWN

  3. 3 On April 18th, 2010, Jenny said:

    your mom is just being a typical mom. short shorts show off alot of leg and your only 14. when you get older your mom wont have as much control over you because thats just part of growing up. you can still wear shorts just not short shorts.

  4. 4 On April 18th, 2010, Baby Cutie3 said:

    Try having an open talk with her dont yell and scream because then she will see how IMMATURE you are just sit her down and let her know how you feel about the situation. That might help..but to be honest SHE IS YOUR MOM and you have to obey her rules….She really does give them to you to protect you now I agree with you..its a little rediculous to make you cover up completley all the time. But just think..in 4 years youll be 18 and you can do whatever you want Start saving your money now….maybe you can move out the day after your 18th birthday? lol. good luck and I hope I helped.

  5. 5 On April 18th, 2010, InNeedOfHelp said:

    Hm I dont really know too much what to say. I have a mom who acts irrational towards me too but shes not very reasonable so talking to her doesnt work. You can try talking to your mom though. Looking up what Sahaja Yoga is… Do you believe in it? Why dont you tell her that while you respect her religious beliefs you dont personally believe them and shouldnt have to follow them. Remind her how the temperature is in Florida how wearing jeans in summer can be really uncomfortable. Be logical and mature dont shout it makes you sound like a little kid who needs even more restrictions.

    If your mom is as unreasonable as my mom though… Whats the case with your dad? If hes around see if he can do anything about it. If that doesnt work well sorry I couldnt have been of more help.

  6. 6 On April 18th, 2010, Amanda Bear said:

    It gets really hot down here in Arizona as well extremely hot and humid at times however I dont see the need to wear shorts. I wear capris and thats about it. I have lots of friends who were small shorts or even bathing suits to go to the stores cause they say its sooo hot. However I dont feel my legs are toned enough to wear shorts. I have big legs and I also know they have some cellulite on them and too me women who wear shorts that have cellulite is gross. My cousins and aunts dress in tiny clothes but their legs are full of cellulite and too me thats one of the nastiest things in the world… hence the reason I dont do it.

    But I know you can wear capris I mean it gets very very hot here also and I make it through the 7 months of heat in capris.

  7. 7 On April 18th, 2010, xoCibs said:

    I totally disagree with the statement that its your body you can wear what you want. Wrong You are a minor living under your mothers roof. You have to follow her rules. Short shorts make a girl look slutty no matter what. Why cant you wear shorts just longer ones? Why do they have to be short shorts? They have plenty of longer shorts that are made from a comfortable thin material that would be far better than jeans. I am sorry but I have to side with your Mom. I have boys but if I had girls I wouldnt let them wear short shorts either. It just sends the wrong message to horny guys and perverts. But as far as sleeveless shirts and dresses I see absolutely nothing wrong with those
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  8. 8 On April 18th, 2010, labellemere said:

    Are you going to learn from the mistake of getting pregnant? Short shorts get men excited and make whoever is wearing them look like she wants to get men excited. Your mother is right you should listen to her. One thing leads to another. Your mom is responsible for you and her job is teaching you how to behave and how to present yourself in society. You should be glad she cares enough not to let you walk around looking like a hoochie mama you could get raped its happened before

  9. 9 On April 18th, 2010, mrhappy said:

    Tell your mom that you always wanted to have a open relationship with her.And not have secrets from her.So that is why your being blunt and asking her straight out.Tell her that you know other girls in school that have secrets and do things behind their moms back.And tell her that is not how you want to be.Tell her that you want to come to her about guy problemsfriend problems.And always show her respect by asking first.Let her know that your not like other girls.If she sees you change she can have the short short back.But that your growing up and want respect and you will give it to her back.Tell her to just think about it Tell her she has nothing to be ashamed of because your not with every guy out there and that you have self respect.

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