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1. 1 On June 29th, 2012, Eisley's Mommy said:

   i was a teen mom. i got pregnant at 17, graduated high school 4 months pregnant and had my daughter at 18. The bad things were that i had to put college on hold, i’m not 21 and just now trying to get into college, but im not sure how it will work out. I had to work full time to care for my daughter. her father hasn’t helped at all since she was born and he lives in a different states. in my case, i met a wonderful man when she was 6 months old and we have been together for 2 years. he acts like her father, she calls him daddy and right now doesn’t know he’s not… eventually when she’s old enough to understand or if her real father tries to be in the picture, i’ll tell her he’s not her real father, but right now she doesn’t understand that. it was hard in the beginning and while i was pregnant being on my own… but i wouldn’t trade it for the world!
   The good things are i’ve got a beautiful little girl that loves me unconditionally and I am her whole world and that’s a great feeling! I will always have something/someone to live for. I have learned a lot from being a parent so young and i feel like it’s made me a better and stronger person. It always does someone good to go through something so difficult.

   posted on June 29th, 2012 at 7:56 pm

2. 2 On June 29th, 2012, Morgan said:

   i am a teen mom and it is really hard. i honestly didnt expect it to be that hard but most girls dont. i really had to grow up and mature. my boyfriend and i had a really turbulent relationship throughout the pregnancy for a couple months which put alot of stress on me which in turn affected the baby and now he is very cranky. just because your having a baby does not mean this guy is going to stay with you forever. thank goodness mine did and stuck by my side even through the fights and i love him to death. it got alot easier after the pregnancy once he realized this baby IS REAL. but i am the one spending 24/7 with this baby and up every hour of the night. he never wants to sleep and is always hungry. breastfeeding hurts for the first month. there is tons of stuff that no one tells you so you think it is going to be a breeze. i had to graduate early so i didnt get to spend my senior year with all my friends. it was hard to work even though i needed the money. everyone stared at me like i was some kind of circus freak on display because i was so young and pregnant. if i could take it all back i would even though my baby is the best thing in the world. he is not a mistake. i just made an unwise choice and i had to deal with the consequences. i love him like no other but it is really hard and if i didnt have the ppl in my life that support me idk how i would get through it. you also have to deal with everyones anger such as both of our parents and you have to watch what you eat and drink and do and everything. its alot of responsibility even before the baby is born.

   posted on June 29th, 2012 at 8:10 pm

3. 3 On June 29th, 2012, Karina said:

   hi i was a teen mom in high school. I got pregnant at 15 and had my baby boy at 16. Being a teen mom aint easy. Especially if the father isnt really involved. I was considered a slut in highschool by everyone just cuz i had a baby. i had no friends. it was really hard. i had the support from my family which was good but i still struggled. i can personally say it had somewhat of a good impact in my life cuz i started getting good grades in school. i figured if im bringing a child into this world then im going to better myself so i was an A+ student with a 3.6 GPA. i graduated from high school. yay! alot of teen moms drop out of high school but i was different and i chose a diffrent route. i didnt wanna be like those other teen moms who dont do anything to better themselfs for their child. im very proud of myself and i can say being a teen mom is really hard cuz u gotta deal with alot of BS from society, schoool, ur family, but i was strong and i had a good impact in my life because of my now 3 year old son….its not easy its a rocky road but if a teen mom could be a strong woman then they can move forward like i did. i graduAted from high school and now i have a certificate to work as a dental assistant and im only 19 now.
   i hope this little story of mine helped and i hope you get a good grade on your essay! =D

   posted on June 29th, 2012 at 8:45 pm

4. 4 On June 29th, 2012, Crystal said:

   Eilseys mommy is a liar – she just posted an answer on another question advising a mum to ‘pop her 2 year old in the mouth’ for saying ‘shut up’.

   If you love your child unconditionally you should never ever harm them.
   I was not a teen mum, I used contraception but for those who are life is hard,
   but that doesn’t give you the right to ‘pop’ your child in the mouth – lightly, hard or otherwise.
   If I ‘popped’ another mum in the mouth even very lightly she would call the cops and here in the UK it is illegal to hit children.

   It’s hard having children at any age but you need self control, hurting those who cannot speak up for themselves is bullying not parenting, maybe this is why children should not have children.

   posted on June 29th, 2012 at 9:44 pm

5. 5 On June 29th, 2012, ☮Sorority Girl said:

   teen moms are sick.. they are bad examples and just sick.

   posted on June 29th, 2012 at 10:34 pm

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